Cool Girl.
WHAT IS A "COOL GIRL"?
Lately I've been thinking a lot about the idea of a "Cool Girl." You hear most men using the term, and some women.
Men everywhere, without ever having talked to each other, share a common idea about women and use the term "Cool Girl" universally. In some places the actual words are different, but the idea is the same. But what does it actually MEAN?
And is it important that men all have this common belief about women?
Well, after thinking about this particular topic for a long time, I've come to the conclusion that it is a VERY important topic. At this point, I believe that a COOL GIRL is this "ideal" that men imagine when they're saying "I want my freedom." They're thinking of the COOL GIRL, and then they're imagining themselves with a woman who is this way. There are a lot of aspects to this COOL GIRL.
Here are a few that are important:
- Lack of Insecurities
- Easygoing
- Humor
- Unpredictability
- Independent
- Emotionally "balanced"
...and the list goes on.
It's actually not easy to describe a COOL GIRL in a few sentences... but the truth is that a man can recognize one INSTANTLY. For more on exactly what a COOL GIRL is, how they naturally communicate with men in a way that makes men think, "This is the kind of woman that I can see myself committing and staying with..."
Lately I've been thinking a lot about the idea of a "Cool Girl." You hear most men using the term, and some women.
Men everywhere, without ever having talked to each other, share a common idea about women and use the term "Cool Girl" universally. In some places the actual words are different, but the idea is the same. But what does it actually MEAN?
And is it important that men all have this common belief about women?
Well, after thinking about this particular topic for a long time, I've come to the conclusion that it is a VERY important topic. At this point, I believe that a COOL GIRL is this "ideal" that men imagine when they're saying "I want my freedom." They're thinking of the COOL GIRL, and then they're imagining themselves with a woman who is this way. There are a lot of aspects to this COOL GIRL.
Here are a few that are important:
- Lack of Insecurities
- Easygoing
- Humor
- Unpredictability
- Independent
- Emotionally "balanced"
...and the list goes on.
It's actually not easy to describe a COOL GIRL in a few sentences... but the truth is that a man can recognize one INSTANTLY. For more on exactly what a COOL GIRL is, how they naturally communicate with men in a way that makes men think, "This is the kind of woman that I can see myself committing and staying with..."
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